I'll leave this to the experts.
There are masses of sites telling you what is hot and what is not. I'll put something together eventually. Old folk like me - ha ha - go to Panama and the Sugar Factory and the Melkweg over-40s nights.
For a list of clubbing websites, check the top right hand corner of AmsterdamDJs
For a list of club links, click here
Clubbing in Amsterdam tends to mean going out at midnight and falling into bed in the early hours after an afterparty.